Is 21 too early for marriage?

[Yvgeniy]

Not at all. It all depends on how you feel about it and what you want to do with your life. I sure as hell don't feel ready to get married yet, heh... Unimaginable to me at the moment.

[Hamburger]

Originally Posted by Yvgeniy

Not at all. It all depends on how you feel about it and what you want to do with your life. I sure as hell don't feel ready to get married yet, heh... Unimaginable to me at the moment.

Thats because gay marriage is controversial, duh.

[Whist]

Originally Posted by GoD_DanTe

wanna know if its too ealry for marriage some say it is some disagree i wanna know gzf's opion on it

Depends on the people and the situation.

I wouldn't say any age is too early.
But I would say earlier is usually worse. The longer you wait the more you realize what you can put up with.
In general, most people who get married around the age of 20 end up divorcing.

"Hey, I love m girlfriend we were together for 8 years, but we never practiced living with each other. Oops, we didn't think about alone time needed after our all too frequent arguments."

The younger you are the less logically you think about it and the more rash your decision in.
And when you don't have to LIVE with a person their personality problems are easier to overlook.

I'd say at 21 a GOOD IDEA would be to move in with each other, and live for a year or so, then get married.
When you move in together the worst that can happen is one of you will need to find a new place if not both. That's a lot easier to manage than that ontop of all the divorce papers.

[manofsparrow]

to have kids (which is pretty much the point of marriage).

Does anyone else agree with this part?

[Whist]

Originally Posted by manofsparrow

Does anyone else agree with this part?

Slightly?
Some people who get married remain together simply because their married even though they find out they don't really love each other. Which heightens the chance they will stay together for their kid.

It's more psychology related.

I think that it's entirely possible to have a kid with out marrage, but it's a lot harder to manage. From last name choosing to the way general society will look at you.
It's just morals and the way we've always known things that make it seem odd to do things that aren't usually done.

[Yvgeniy]

Originally Posted by manofsparrow

Does anyone else agree with this part?

Nope... that's an evolutionary ideal, but by no means the main point behind marriage, though it may be for some people.

[Chess]

osht I am 21 and marriage is still very far away to me =/...

C'mon imagine all the seks and stuff u could test with AAALLLLLLLLLL the willing girls out tharrrrrrrrrr. One girl is too boring in this age I think. Not talking about girls only, it's just too early to take such a serious step. wtffffffff 21...no...



Party all nite, nail sum gurls and open a new thread "Is 30 too early for marriage?" when it's time for it o.O <3

[Whist]

Originally Posted by Chess

osht I am 21 and marriage is still very far away to me =/...

C'mon imagine all the seks and stuff u could test with AAALLLLLLLLLL the willing girls out tharrrrrrrrrr. One girl is too boring in this age I think. Not talking about girls only, it's just too early to take such a serious step. wtffffffff 21...no...



Party all nite, nail sum gurls and open a new thread "Is 30 too early for marriage?" when it's time for it o.O <3

I got my first real girlfriend at age 14.
I'm still with her.

I've never met somebody who jumps from girl to girl who is actually satisfied with their sexlife like the ones, including me, who have had a steady girlfriend.
Not only do I get it more frequently, it's much better because the person knows what they're doing and what you like.

I can't tell you how many stories I've heard from my friends about girls who just suck. I'd rather just take the night off and do it myself than sit there awkwardly watching a girl thinking she's good or not hurting me.


I think a lot of the people who say they don't want a girlfriend just haven't experienced a true connection with somebody. A lot of people spend most of their time arguing but still try to stay together...that's not how it should be at all, and I can understand after going through a few relationships like that that somebody wouldn't be to favorable of them.

Not saying that everybody will be more of a fan of a good long term relationship, but generally I believe most people have just been scared away.

Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out on the bachelor life, but that's only when we're away from each other for a long time, I never feel like I"m missing out of anything when we're together though.

[Gorilla Juice]

Why not ask if 18, or even 14 is too early for marriage? rofl

Look up US Marriage Laws.

[Chess]

Originally Posted by Whist

I got my first real girlfriend at age 14.
I'm still with her.

I've never met somebody who jumps from girl to girl who is actually satisfied with their sexlife like the ones, including me, who have had a steady girlfriend.
Not only do I get it more frequently, it's much better because the person knows what they're doing and what you like.

I can't tell you how many stories I've heard from my friends about girls who just suck. I'd rather just take the night off and do it myself than sit there awkwardly watching a girl thinking she's good or not hurting me.

I'm 21. I've had my first real relationship with my ex-gf at the age of 18, lasted for 2 years. We split up cuz it didn't work, and I'm enjoying my life now. We're still friends tho.


Depends on what you want of course, it's up to everyone to decide for himself..

[Whist]

Originally Posted by Chess

I'm 21. I've had my first real relationship with my ex-gf at the age of 18, lasted for 2 years. We split up cuz it didn't work, and I'm enjoying my life now. We're still friends tho.


Depends on what you want of course, it's up to everyone to decide for himself..

yeah I was working on editing to kind of explain that.

[Vema...]

Originally Posted by Snuwfer Aubi

I wouldn't...

21-28 is usually your party years.

agreeeeeeeed

[KlNETIC]

yes to early

[Dakantos]

No. It's not too early.

If you are in love with her, and been together for a while, and LIVED with each for a considerable amount of time, no its not too young.

[Terraka]

... but divorces are so ever damned popular these days. lol. I think it depends on the people. To some the majority, 21 is damn early to be thinking about marriage. If that couple thought properly about it, then it would be OK. But some people don't fully think of it as a life-time commitment enough. Marriage is a nice symbol for love... but people should keep in mind it's also a life-time commitment. One that you shouldn't just jump into for the sake of symbolizing your love... or making it "official".