Sex

[Odin5]

Let's talk about sex baby, Let's t-...Oh hey, there you are.

Yes, sex warrants a serious discussion. Why? Because frankly, teenager's today (And of course young adults/adults) are just plain idiots when it comes to the topic.

It's always "**** first, and hope I pulled out early enough!" or "I'll **** anything that's hot, screw personality, as long as she's hot and the sex is good, it doesn't matter!"

Now, i'm sure that there are a group of people here who have lost their virginity, one way or another. But, I digress.

Talk about anything relating to sex - Questions about it, STDs, positions, age limit, consensual vs non-consensual (For example - If one is being raped, but soon begins to enjoy it, is it then still rape?), Karma Sutra, experiences, taboos, etc etc etc, the list can go on and on.

Please make note though:

THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK ADVICE IN REGARDS TO SEXUAL PROBLEMS (I.E: "What should I do?!?") OUR OPINIONS ARE OUR OWN, AND ARE NOT MEANT TO BE USED FOR AN "END ALL BE ALL" IN THE END, IT IS YOUR DECISION, THERE IS NO "RIGHT" ANSWER BECAUSE OPINIONS ARE, JUST THAT, OPINIONS.

It's highly odd that I would make a topic about this though, seeing how I VERY rarely ever speak the word "Sex" at ANY time. Kind of like any/all curse words, except replace "VERY rarely" with "never"

[FUCENDARKNESS]

"Sex is AWESOME if it's with the right person." - IamMe

I was talking with my friend on MSN about sex a while back. We went back and forth about why I should or shouldn't wait. It started off with my saying I met this really awesome chick at a party, and I was talking to him about it. He said this...

"You have three options.

1) Screw her and leave (NOT RECOMMENDED)

2) Have an intimate, sex-free relationship (Somewhat recommended)

3) Have an intimate, sex-filled relationship (Recommended)"

I bring this up, because I'm a Christian, and I'm all for abstinance, but in a world where sex is part of modern life, it's REALLY ****ING HARD to keep hormones under control. That's my little 2 cents for this convo, I got to go run.

Also, my friend happens to be gay, and I'm not.

[bmx000]

Sex.....hmm......yeap we all love sex.

[sillythewilly]

Bleh. I wait till I get married. If I get married o_O. Call me a wuss.

It's something you'd want to save for your special someone, no? How'd you feel in the future if your special someone told you that he/she/it had sex with someone else before you o_O?

Not. Interested. -_-''

[Ultra Jesus]

Originally Posted by sillythewilly

Bleh. I wait till I get married. If I get married o_O. Call me a wuss.

It's something you'd want to save for your special someone, no? How'd you feel in the future if your special someone told you that he/she/it had sex with someone else before you o_O?

Not. Interested. -_-''

I understand where you're coming from but would you rather be a virgin and have sex with your wife for your first time, which will be awkward for the both of you, especially if you're both virgins, because you've had no previous experience. Or would you rather lose your virginity earlier and 'become better' at sex to please your wife more?

[Hardkoreelf]

Once you've had sex, Miss. Palm and her five daughters no longer seem as appealing.

[Deathguise/Closure]

"You have three options.

1) Screw her and leave (NOT RECOMMENDED)

2) Have an intimate, sex-free relationship (Somewhat recommended)

3) Have an intimate, sex-filled relationship (Recommended)"

Sex, just like food or water, is a first level human need. Therefore, once I heard that in biology class back when I was 14, I decided to fulfill that need.

I don't see anything wrong in ''love 'em and leave 'em'', especially since I tend to be the one to get hit on, with just flirting back. I'll only go with option 3 if someone is really special, and even then I rarely do so.

Screw around ftw imo, just do it tactical enough to not get the reputation of someone who hurts the opposite sex's feelings.

[FUCENDARKNESS]

Originally Posted by Deathguise/Closure

I don't see anything wrong in ''love 'em and leave 'em''

K. I'll remember that whenever I get laid and then never talk to the person again, oh by the way, GOSSIP SPREADS VERY FAST. It wouldn't be good if I were to have sex, leave the person, and get it spread around the school.

[Nys]

I'm very shallow when it comes to sex appeal.

Looks > Personality, for the first week or two at least

[Paul]

Originally Posted by Ultra Jesus

I understand where you're coming from but would you rather be a virgin and have sex with your wife for your first time, which will be awkward for the both of you, especially if you're both virgins, because you've had no previous experience. Or would you rather lose your virginity earlier and 'become better' at sex to please your wife more?

Well on the other hand, it's a bit painful to think about someone who you care about doing something like that with somebody else. And although you want to please whoever you marry, it's definately not a bad idea to experiment with them.

I've heard all sorts of horror stories about people who have such horribly bad sex when they first start out. They wind up hurting the other person, themselves, they last five seconds, etc. I dunno man. My first time was great, and it lasted forty minutes. Maybe I'm just one of those lucky people when it comes to stuff like that, but I think that it's worth it to wait for someone you care about. It'll pay off in the end, in my opinion.

[falcon]

@Alive

That doesn't count with guys, you know?

[Odin5]

Originally Posted by falcon

@Alive

That doesn't count with guys, you know?

It might not in your opinion. It's not definitive.

[xenomorph]

Originally Posted by Deathguise/Closure

Screw around ftw imo, just do it tactical enough to not get the reputation of someone who hurts the opposite sex's feelings.

People like you make it ****ty to be a young honest person these days.

Sex is very important to some people. I know it was very important to me when I first did it. If you're gonna do that "lets fruck and then leave it at that" thing, make sure it's clear to both of you. Nothing more sad than a young person's honest heart being broken.

btw odin what's your big beef with sex?

[Maus]

This is a stupid thread...

"I'll **** anything that's hot, screw personality, as long as she's hot and the sex is good, it doesn't matter!"

um, duh? Once you get to a certain age, you'll realize all the fuxing hot yet stuck up chicks around you, and think...

hells ya i can get into AT LEAST a few of those babes.



Really, sex is natural. Smart sex yes, but for god sakes... Dont make it a bigger deal then it has to be.

[Wazz]

Originally Posted by Odin5

Let's talk about sex baby, Let's t-...Oh hey, there you are.

Yes, sex warrants a serious discussion. Why? Because frankly, teenager's today (And of course young adults/adults) are just plain idiots when it comes to the topic.

It's always "**** first, and hope I pulled out early enough!" or "I'll **** anything that's hot, screw personality, as long as she's hot and the sex is good, it doesn't matter!"

Now, i'm sure that there are a group of people here who have lost their virginity, one way or another. But, I digress.

Talk about anything relating to sex - Questions about it, STDs, positions, age limit, consensual vs non-consensual (For example - If one is being raped, but soon begins to enjoy it, is it then still rape?), Karma Sutra, experiences, taboos, etc etc etc, the list can go on and on.

Please make note though:

THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK ADVICE IN REGARDS TO SEXUAL PROBLEMS (I.E: "What should I do?!?") OUR OPINIONS ARE OUR OWN, AND ARE NOT MEANT TO BE USED FOR AN "END ALL BE ALL" IN THE END, IT IS YOUR DECISION, THERE IS NO "RIGHT" ANSWER BECAUSE OPINIONS ARE, JUST THAT, OPINIONS.

It's highly odd that I would make a topic about this though, seeing how I VERY rarely ever speak the word "Sex" at ANY time. Kind of like any/all curse words, except replace "VERY rarely" with "never"

Kids need to start planning more instead of doing it to have fun.