How a relationship can disturb you...

[gnoto]

Ok, let's start for the beggining. I am a cop. A technical police officer, in fact. A week ago, the Liutenant (who is in charge of the police station) gave me 2 noobs (read, novice police officers) to give training.

One of them was my girlfriend's ex.

He just didn't know about Lily and me until he saw the pic of her I have in my desk. All of a sudden, took me from the shirt, rose me up to his face, and asked me why I have a pic of "his" girlfriend. I assure you I wanted to shoot him in that very moment, because he made suffer too much to Lily. And I punched him.

He fell to the ground, and I took him by the arm, then help him to rise up. First of all I scolded him for not respecting me (as a superior officer, I'm 2 grades up from him), and for not respecting himself, doing such a fool of himself. By then, the other cops came to see what happened, and he punched me, now in the balls. That really hurts, but i could reach the desk and stay stand. He took the Lily's picture and went off from the station, with unknown destination until now.

I feel me like a gelatine, because my gun was in the desk, he could give me a shot and I wouldn't write this. I feel me bad for that guy, because he was so disturbed, like crazy, that I wonder what would he think in that very moment..

He just don't appear, and I'm scared that he was just commit suicide, or something worst, like spying Lily or me, and kill us. He have the reglamentary beretta that all cops have, and we fear the worst.

Wonder if I'll survive this day.

[Sparked]

U dont need to feel bad about anything dude u wasnt in the wrong.
and i terribly dought he will commit suicide.

[Jaz2005]

Gnoto has periods.

[King Banana]

You punched him then helped him up? I'd love to be in a fight with you =]
You hit me once now it's my turn! Yeah I am a turn based fan! Blame FF.
Will you get disciplined? I mean you did strike the first blow.
How will you survive?
Well if he chooses to kill himself that's his choice it has nothing to do with you.

[darkjut]

i wouldnt worry about it too much if i was you. if he wanted to kill you, either you will be dead by weeks end or he will begin to torment you before he does, the second one though is only if he really is disturbed since that seems to be a common profile for that type of person that i could get from what you said. just be alert and remember your training. you have the experience he doesnt have, so you already have an advantage.

[Guerrilla]

dont sweat it gnoto, everything will be fine.>_>

[Eirikia]

Originally Posted by gnoto

Ok, let's start for the beggining. I am a cop. A technical police officer, in fact. A week ago, the Liutenant (who is in charge of the police station) gave me 2 noobs (read, novice police officers) to give training.

One of them was my girlfriend's ex.

He just didn't know about Lily and me until he saw the pic of her I have in my desk. All of a sudden, took me from the shirt, rose me up to his face, and asked me why I have a pic of "his" girlfriend. I assure you I wanted to shoot him in that very moment, because he made suffer too much to Lily. And I punched him.

He fell to the ground, and I took him by the arm, then help him to rise up. First of all I scolded him for not respecting me (as a superior officer, I'm 2 grades up from him), and for not respecting himself, doing such a fool of himself. By then, the other cops came to see what happened, and he punched me, now in the balls. That really hurts, but i could reach the desk and stay stand. He took the Lily's picture and went off from the station, with unknown destination until now.

I feel me like a gelatine, because my gun was in the desk, he could give me a shot and I wouldn't write this. I feel me bad for that guy, because he was so disturbed, like crazy, that I wonder what would he think in that very moment..

He just don't appear, and I'm scared that he was just commit suicide, or something worst, like spying Lily or me, and kill us. He have the reglamentary beretta that all cops have, and we fear the worst.

Wonder if I'll survive this day.

Note: I only quoted this so I can refer as I write don't take it personally.

First of all, there is nothing like being caught in the heat of the moment when sometimes years of training vanishes in the instant and it is just time to act. That said I understand what its like to forget an important procedure like making sure an aggressor doesn't get ahold of the gun, but don't beat yourself over the head about it. I actually just read a play "Oleanna" by David Mamet and in this 2-person play, the professor says to the student in an analogy: A pilot is flying the plane. He thinks: Oh, my God, my mind's been drifting! Oh, my God! What kind of imbecile am I, that I, with this so precious cargo of Life in my charge, would allow my attention to wander? Why was I born? How deluded are those who put their trust in me, ...etc, so on, and he crashes the plane." He then goes to say "[He could've said" my attention wandered for a moment....I had a thought I did not like but...but now: [its time to move on]". When a man's eyes are filled with rage they commit many careless and punishing mistakes. Just keep your eyes open, believe in yourself and I think you'll be fine. He had a single outburst, it doesn't necessarily mean there will be further actions. Not every calm is followed by a storm.

Originally Posted by King Banana

You punched him then helped him up? I'd love to be in a fight with you =]
You hit me once now it's my turn! Yeah I am a turn based fan! Blame FF.
Will you get disciplined? I mean you did strike the first blow.
How will you survive?
Well if he chooses to kill himself that's his choice it has nothing to do with you.

Sorry, double post. I disagree, he forcefully put his hands on our friend here and lifted him up to his face. That is called battery in the criminal justice system and he can actually press charges so disciplined? I really doubt it. That's assuming the policy is actually fair anyway.

[GreyFoX]

youd better tell him off good

id be pissed if that ever happened

[Samble]

Wow Thats Very Scary , I Would Hate It.

[gnoto]

Originally Posted by Eirikia

Sorry, double post. I disagree, he forcefully put his hands on our friend here and lifted him up to his face. That is called battery in the criminal justice system and he can actually press charges so disciplined? I really doubt it. That's assuming the policy is actually fair anyway.

First of all, thank for your support. Second, I am his superior, man, he doesn't have the right to do that, I could not only be able to punch him, but to shoot him, actually (I live in Perú. USA laws don't apply here, sorry).

And third, we caught him already. He shooted himself. End of story. For him, at least.

[Guerrilla]

gnoto get on MSN i got suttin to tell you

Edit: nvm go on tomorrow im loggin off

[Hinata•§an]

Man that's harsh I m glad you and your Gf are fine ^_^

[Eirikia]

Originally Posted by gnoto

First of all, thank for your support. Second, I am his superior, man, he doesn't have the right to do that, I could not only be able to punch him, but to shoot him, actually (I live in Perú. USA laws don't apply here, sorry).

And third, we caught him already. He shooted himself. End of story. For him, at least.

bleh maybe I should've taken a look at your location first. I didn't understand that. You're allowed to shoot him but not punch him? And he shot himself...alive or dead?

Much Confused,
Eirikia

[Anga]

Originally Posted by gnoto

And third, we caught him already. He shooted himself. End of story. For him, at least.

Well....I'm glad everyone is safe now.

[JinDaYi]

Originally Posted by Anga

Well....I'm glad everyone is safe now.

Yes. A happy ending that brings a tear to everyone's eye(s).