Second Chances

Steelste · 06-21-2008, 02:08 AM

Do you believe in second chances?

Such as to a friend? a family member? or even a complete stranger?

/Discuss

/Vote

Mr.Lucifer · 06-21-2008, 03:40 AM

Second chances are quite possible, but it entirely depends on the situation.

~~NATURALSPIRIT~~ · 06-21-2008, 04:26 AM

One-hundred percent situation-based.

You cheat on me? Good-bye.

STM1993 · 06-21-2008, 05:05 AM

It depends on the situation, though most of the time I give second chances.

Hitoshi · 06-21-2008, 05:07 AM

Well, i feel stupid for saying yes.

ToshX · 06-21-2008, 05:11 AM

(@Natural)oh god your avatar

Anyway, it's kinda situational I guess, but I don't really give second chances(I mean I do, but I have to really like you and even then it's rare). I suppose I should be a bit more forgiving, well more than a bit, but as soon as you do something to me I pretty much cut you off entirely and there's no real way around that without stuff a bit extreme or me just forgetting who you are.

I dunno, if you do something on accident to me(stuff happens), I don't count that, but if you intentionally do something or the fact that you weren't thinking caused you to do something to me, you're pretty much gone. I hate to be like this, but I got sick of people messing with me years ago, and now I'm in a better position in my life because of it. Think of it as avoiding problems and moving on in life faster at the cost of possibly missing out on some things by losing some people.

manofsparrow · 06-21-2008, 09:51 AM

Only if they use it wisely.

slingblader · 06-21-2008, 11:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manofsparrow

Only if they use it wisely.

you can't know that before hand.

Colby · 06-21-2008, 11:40 AM

I don't believe in third chances until I get some sort of evidence that the person in question deserves such.

Dakantos · 06-21-2008, 11:46 AM

Depends on situation. For the most part, i give 3rd, alot of times 4th chances, simply because i'm nice and patient. but if someone ever cheated on me, or intentionally did something they know would cause me tremendous pain, no second chances.

manofsparrow · 06-21-2008, 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slingblader

you can't know that before hand.

That's probably why I don't give out many chances at all.

LordShaft · 06-21-2008, 01:50 PM

Kill me once, shame on you

kill me twice...

slingblader · 06-21-2008, 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LordShaft

Kill me once, shame on you

kill me twice...

Start a magic show.

Whist · 06-21-2008, 08:45 PM

It's completely based upon the situation.
Something I would never dream of giving anybody a second chance in I might end up doing if they had a valid reason for doing it.

Colby · 06-21-2008, 09:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dakantos

Depends on situation. For the most part, i give 3rd, alot of times 4th chances, simply because i'm nice and patient. but if someone ever cheated on me, or intentionally did something they know would cause me tremendous pain, no second chances.

Shouldn't that be at least a second chance situation? I mean...It's a little pessimistic to think no one can change for the better.

View Poll Results: Do you believe in second chances?
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No	4	19.05%
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06-21-2008, 02:08 AM	#1 (permalink)
Steelste Gunzfactorian Commando Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: CAKE IS A LIE Admin Posts: 2,340	Second Chances Do you believe in second chances? Such as to a friend? a family member? or even a complete stranger? /Discuss /Vote __________________ (╬ ಠ益ಠ)

06-21-2008, 03:40 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mr.Lucifer Gunzfactorian Soldier Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 925	Re: Second Chances Second chances are quite possible, but it entirely depends on the situation.

06-21-2008, 04:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
~~NATURALSPIRIT~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: kool Posts: 260 NATURALSPIRIT's GamerBio	Re: Second Chances One-hundred percent situation-based. You cheat on me? Good-bye.

06-21-2008, 05:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
STM1993 Gunzfactorian Guardian Join Date: May 2007 Location: Singapore Posts: 1,115	Re: Second Chances It depends on the situation, though most of the time I give second chances. __________________ ~Spy_The_Man1993~

06-21-2008, 05:07 AM	#5 (permalink)
Hitoshi Gunzfactorian Guardian Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Boston Posts: 1,865 Hitoshi's GamerBio	Re: Second Chances Well, i feel stupid for saying yes. __________________ Quit gunz.

06-21-2008, 05:11 AM	#6 (permalink)
ToshX Gunzfactorian Commando Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,438 ToshX's GamerBio	Re: Second Chances (@Natural)oh god your avatar Anyway, it's kinda situational I guess, but I don't really give second chances(I mean I do, but I have to really like you and even then it's rare). I suppose I should be a bit more forgiving, well more than a bit, but as soon as you do something to me I pretty much cut you off entirely and there's no real way around that without stuff a bit extreme or me just forgetting who you are. I dunno, if you do something on accident to me(stuff happens), I don't count that, but if you intentionally do something or the fact that you weren't thinking caused you to do something to me, you're pretty much gone. I hate to be like this, but I got sick of people messing with me years ago, and now I'm in a better position in my life because of it. Think of it as avoiding problems and moving on in life faster at the cost of possibly missing out on some things by losing some people.

06-21-2008, 09:51 AM	#7 (permalink)
manofsparrow Gunzfactorian Commando Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 2,412 manofsparrow's GamerBio	Re: Second Chances Only if they use it wisely.

06-21-2008, 11:40 AM	#9 (permalink)
Colby Gunzfactorian Hero Join Date: May 2006 Location: PA Posts: 3,227 Colby's GamerBio	Re: Second Chances I don't believe in third chances until I get some sort of evidence that the person in question deserves such. __________________

06-21-2008, 01:50 PM	#12 (permalink)
LordShaft Gunzfactorian Veteran Hero Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: PA Posts: 4,432	Re: Second Chances Kill me once, shame on you kill me twice... __________________

06-21-2008, 08:45 PM	#14 (permalink)
Whist Gunzfactorian Veteran Hero Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: L~A~W~L Reputation: Fail Posts: 4,039	Re: Second Chances It's completely based upon the situation. Something I would never dream of giving anybody a second chance in I might end up doing if they had a valid reason for doing it.